Thursday, April 7, 2011

Do I love movies?!?!?!?

The Great Blog Challenge lasts for 30 days and the goal is to share a bit of yourself each day, following the prompts given. To see the full list of guides for each day, read my April 1 posting. I am loving the Great Blog Challenge, and truly think you would too. So join at any time throughout the month... you will learn alot about yourself but also have fun doing it :)

Day 7: Favorite Movies

Oh my goodness, I love movies. I used to work at Blockbuster as a teenager and the biggest perk for me was that I got to get 5 free rentals a week!!! And the other super cool thing is that the 5 could be ANY movie I wanted, even ones that were not available to rent yet. Yeah, I had it like that lol. Hands down that was my best job as a teenager and I would have stayed and moved up to manager but my education was FAR more important and Alma College was waiting for me.

Well to start back from the beginning, my mom really inspired my love for movies. As a child she used to take me, my sister and brother to the movies downtown Cincinnati. For me as a little kid it was AWESOME. I think watching movies at a young age is why I am so imaginative. But here are a couple of the movies that I love and will watch over and over again. I hope that you have atleast heard of these movies if you have not yet seen them. Trust me you will love these.


  • Meet Joe Black: one of the only movies in which I fell in love with Brad Pitt. This movie is loosely based on the classic Death Takes a Holiday (which I did not see). But I adore the story line, I think the movie was wonderfully written, acted and every time I watch it I cry. This is how bad I love this movie, I brought the 2 VHS tapes when it first came out, and once it came on DVD I gave it to my Boston College lab partner. In college and grad school I got so many of my friends to watch this movie and I think they appreciated it. I even watched this on t.v. when it came on a couple of years ago, that is how much I can not get enough of this movie.


  • The Little Mermaid: Favorite cartoon and movie of all time. I read Hans Christian Anderson's version as a child and cried my eyes out. When it came out on VHS my mom rented it and we watched it as a family. I think my siblings and mom was not too impressed but 9 year old Keyta was in love. I wanted everything Little Mermaid inspired and was just so obsessed. When it came back out in the theaters 10 years later I was at the Friday night opening as if I never seen the movie. I know every song and can be called a fanatic.


  • The Princess Bride: the setting is in one of my favorite time periods, a young and very attractive Cary Elwes and a very humorous and romantic story. A true classic in my mind.


  • The Usual Suspects: One of the movies I remember seeing with just my sister. The acting, cast, story was so refreshing it was difficult to not walk out of the screening and not want to be like Keyser Soze.


  • Brother Bear: I love this cartoon for the simple fact that it reminds me of my brother Geoffrey. I can not watch this movie too often because I just cry and cry. But it is sweet, cute and touching.


  • Kiss the Girls: This has an older Cary Elwes but Morgan Freedman and Ashley Judd really make this book turned screenplay a chiller. I watch this movie every time it is on tv even though I own it.


  • Space Balls: I am so not into Star Wars and I love how Mel Brooks makes fun of it in a way that is spot on and side splitting. I love this movie and can watch repeatedly.


  • Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom: this movie scared me as a child because hearts were being removed from people's chest. I went to the cheapee show with my family to see this and loved the action, had a major crush on Harrison Ford but very afraid of losing my heart lol..


  • Well here were some of my favorite movies, many of them not very current but quite enjoyable and I would bet money that you would love them.


      Wednesday, April 6, 2011

      Just looking at you makes me smile...

      The Great Blog Challenge lasts for 30 days and the goal is to share a bit of yourself each day, following the prompts given. To see the full list of guides for each day, read my April 1 posting. I am loving the Great Blog Challenge, and truly think you would too. So join at any time throughout the month... you will learn alot about yourself but also have fun doing it :)

      Day 6: A picture of something that makes me happy.

      Well the picture I wanted to post was the family picture of me, my sister, my brother and my mom. Because of some computer issues I can not post it :( That picture makes me smile just now thinking of it. I love looking at my family and it is truly beautiful.

      SO my dilemma was, what would be a close second?!?!? I love my friends and thinking of them make me smile and I love my boyfriend and he makes me smile also. How about the best of both worlds. This picture is one of my favorites. It has my best friends in it and it also captures activities I love: being with friends, being with the man I love and drinking wine.


      Tuesday, April 5, 2011

      My lovely siblings....

      The Great Blog Challenge lasts for 30 days and the goal is to share a bit of yourself each day, following the prompts given. To see the full list of guides for each day, read my April 1 posting. I am loving the Great Blog Challenge, and truly think you would too. So join at any time throughout the month... you will learn alot about yourself but also have fun doing it :)

      Day 4: My siblings

      So this is the day in which I celebrate my siblings. I have two: Traleathea my older sister and my younger brother Geoffrey who is deceased. I am the middle child who enjoyed having the best of both world's an intelligent older sister to look up to and a younger brother who was very similar to me.

      Traleathea is my free spirited sister. She is serious, funny, caring, a world traveler and someone who loves and understands me. She is my best friend and even though distance keeps us apart a day does not go by when I don't think of her and smile. We fight, we laugh, we dance, we will be there for each other until the day we die. I wish my sister the best in all that she does because she is a beautiful person. I love you sis :)

      Geoffrey was taken away too soon but I cherish the times we had. The fights the competitiveness and the brother/sister bond that we shared. I see him in every bright star and know that he is okay and looking over me. I love my family with their quirkiness, seriousness, humor and all. They mean the world to me.

      Monday, April 4, 2011

      Dear Moma :)

      The Great Blog Challenge lasts for 30 days and the goal is to share a bit of yourself each day, following the prompts given. To see the full list of guides for each day, read my April 1 posting. I am loving the Great Blog Challenge, and truly think you would too. So join at any time throughout the month... you will learn alot about yourself but also have fun doing it :)

      Welcome to Day 4: Who are your parents?


      Well, I am the daughter of Bernard Fairbanks but my mother Debra Rayford raised me. My mother was a single parent who overcame alot in her life to pave the way for her children. She struggled, she conquered and took no prisoners at times. My moma is not the warmest woman in the world, we do have our issues but I truly and forever love her.





      She raised three children and taught us the value of education and pursuing what we want in life. She is a hard woman but I must say that for being a teenage mother to 2kids and having a third child at 20, my moma raised me to be a woman who loves unconditionally, desire to help others,and to be me. I love my moma and even though she is not the kissie, bake cookies, Susie Homemaker, she is a wonderful, funny, successful lovely lady and I am blessed to have her.

      Sunday, April 3, 2011

      Here's to you Christopher

      Welcome to day 3. I hope you have been enjoying what has been going on so far. Today is the day I talk about my first love. As a child I had so many crushes but never felt that I loved them. I can say that my first crush was a junior at Alma College name Christopher.

      He was just awesome, funny (loved Chewbacca hence the picture) athletic, and ambitious. We met the summer of 1999 and started off as friends. We had great chemistry, conversations and I truly thought that I was in love with him. Our relationship was brief and fraught with tension due to race. He was white and I am clearly not. I knew when I met his parents that it would never be anything more. In addition when issues with race came up in school we fought and I could not stand it anymore. I don't even remember saying goodbye and I regret that now.

      He transferred from Alma and I never saw him again. I am not happy with how things ended but I can not change that. He passed away in July 2008 at the age of 30. I look back at our time together and I realize that I was way to immature for the relationship and he was too. I can see that now with new eyes. I can also see that in reality, I was not in love with him. 19 year old Keyta in all of her wisdom about love believed that she was in love which is why Chris has the title of my first love, but after being with someone as great as the guy I am with now, I can say that I truly distinguish what a first love is. So here's to you Caleb Michael, I love you :)

      Saturday, April 2, 2011

      Meaning behind my blog name

      So what is the meaning behind my blog name "The ending of an era and the beginning of another"? Well, I came up with this blog name to capture the spirit of what I was attempting to chronicle. I started this blog in April 2010 and the goal was to blog weekly the activities I was accomplishing for my 30 by 30.

      The blog name was to give tribute to the ending of an era meaning my 20's and celebrating and embracing the beginning of another which would be the lovely decade of being 30. The aim of the blog was to also give me something to look back on and to celebrate what the era of my 30's and more will bring.

      Friday, April 1, 2011

      The beginning of the great blog challenge... Day 1

      Happy April 1st all!!! I can not believe that it is April already. Three months has passed and I continue to feel blessed and loved. I am also blogging more which is a great improvement and a nice stress reliever. But now to get on track.... today starts the beginning of the Great Blog Challenge (I know, the title of the posting gave it away...lol). So brief summary, this is a 30 day challenge in which I will blog about a predetermined topic. I am doing this with my best friend Kara and some other wonderful individuals. I am really happy and hope that you all enjoy the 30 days :)

      ~Day 1: Introduce myself, submit a recent picture and highlight 15 interesting facts

      I guess an introduction is in order. My name is La'Keyta but I go by Keytabell. I was born and raised in Cincinnati, Ohio in December. I was the middle child and with that I always felt like I had the best of everything in that I had an older sister to look up to, but also a younger brother to model appropriate behaviors and also have fun with. I consider myself a pretty easy going individual, humorous, extremely verbal and compassionate. I enjoy traveling, reading and being around awesome people :)




      Here are 15 interesting facts about myself:

      1. I picked my undergrad college because it started with an "A".
      2. I was voted funniest in high school.
      3. I did not get my driver's license until I was 23 after failing the first time because I drove too slow.
      4. I joined the sorority Alpha Gamma Delta at Alma College because I wanted some positive people in my life...I can truly say that my sisters saved me
      5. I have legally worked since the age of 14
      6. I typically will move every year because I want to experience a new neighborhood and I just love moving.
      7. I am working on my Doctoral degree and after completing my dissertation I will require people to call me "doctor"
      8. I got my first car at age 25 and I just paid it off..woot woot
      9. I love electronics more than jewelry
      10. To unwind from a hard day at work I typically watch crime dramas which ends up making me cry or a bit more paranoid than I already am
      11. I have only lived in 5 states
      12. My goal is to visit at least one new state a year
      13. My nickname growing up was "Fatty" affectionately given to me by my Uncle Jeff
      14. I want to be major of Cincinnati but realistically know that that would never happen
      15. When I see the brightest star in the sky I believe that it is my brother letting me know he is in heaven and is okay.

      Thanks for reading my day one...come back and see what's going down for tomorrow